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Marriage or Wedding  both have the same meanings. According to English it mean
The legally or formally recognized union of two people as partners in a personal relationship (historically and in some jurisdictions specifically a union between a man and a woman).
This bold letters .
And,
According to biology when a male body and a female body comes close to each other.

Some say marriage are made in heaven 
some its two soul comes together.
Thoughts and the concept of this word changes according to your geographical area.But the meaning according to any language remains same worldwide.It is said that the thing or meaning which remain constant every where is only the truth personally I  think so. If two person can live happily with each other that place is heaven. Heaven means happiness think so, but this word  'happiness' is in the arm of very few people because to be happy one need to fight .

Marriage has a lots of traditional  values in India. Indian wedding is fulll of colors Bride wears a red saree, red bangles, Red mehandi in hands a lot of charm in eyes full of happiness.
Family gathering, friends . music, Dance every thing 

Some thing like Indian Bollywood Movie. Larger than life show. One can see in wedding house every where

happiness. People used to dance on Bollywood masala songs In Indian wedding a lot of colorful foods , sweets are . Means full color full grand party with traditional touch and a great decoration with flowers and light

Most used flowers are in red , yellow , white in colors . Chanting of mantra by Brahmans. 

Couples take seven round circles around the fire. These seven circles has its own importance which

You can find in my next blog about it.Couples hold there hand and promise to be together 

for ever and never betray means .They will be loyal to each others in a simple line 

After marriage a new life of Indian girl start a new journey. They have to live there mother house and till the end she had to live with her husband  and his family

Artistically if I talk , Indian Bride looks really beautiful . You can find a lot of photographs, Paintings  on Indian bride. Dark Red contract color , feeling in eyes , hope of new worlds , tears to be get separated form the native place . An Artist can find those emotional shades . In many movies the creative people had portrait them out.The color and sound of bangles 

and payal are very worth listing.

You can imagine happiness of the whole wedding picture . And its really I feel great , about this 

Parents choose the partner and journey starts of life. Love , Romance, Candle light dinner , new family , new relations, and after few years Kids .Its another thing who are partner , they are complete stranger before marriage. And its also another thing that from childhood we are told by our parents that don't talk to a stranger. Even in book of class 1 you can find its written some so called precautions like 

Don't take the food from stranger

Don't talk to a strangers

Its another thing.

it always come to a point of deep discussion in India  about Love Marriage and Arrange Marriage.

which is more successful. and which is more better one.

This discussion has a very valid and strong point from the parents " My child you are small . You can't understands whats good or bad". They are the parents who say now grow up, stand on your leg do job take your own decision in life. But when its come for a life partner , don't have right to choose. love marriages are not considers to fruitfull in the society .The reason can be any thing for it either its caste, positions, money or any thing .

If i look to the pages of history then , I come to a word Swayamvars - based  on the concept that girls have the right to choose the man on the basis of conditions. Time was there when was respected a lot .

And the symbol  of honor and respect and they should because they live many life in one life. daughter, sister, wife, mother, mother-in-law many life with full of responsibilities.In Indian culture we respect women we worship women .  But do we really ?? If we check the data of last few years then a ? mark comes in my mind  after looking the posters save girl child, stop rape and may others.

Change is the law of nature, Caste system clicks on and the love marriages in India had came under dark. And the arrange marriage had taken the light. And the beginning of new system Dowry system,

honor killing comes into existence. But Arrange marriage is good its another thing people had give Dowry , Many girls are still unmarried because of heavy dowry. but Arrange marriage is good.

The boy is good because our parents had chosen then .its another thing if he bits her wife.Domestic violence we had given the term to it . But arrange marriage is good.

In Love marriage its not good, its another thing kids love each other . They can live happily with each other its another thing. Our parents supported in every part of life, but there own ward wants to marry from there choice then , why , there supports vanished out.

I think marriage is all about the love of two person, We talk about love. But why this word lost the value.